Bad Blog, BAD!

The stupid template won't change the way I want it to! I can't get the links to show up! (Notice the link bar but nothing there? There really are links!!!!) And then I wanted to change my templates but the ones on blogger are BLAH so went searching on the good old internet for some good templates. But everything is so difficult. I really am not THAT computer savy. I do have a life you know!! BBBAAAHHH!!!